Saturday, November 07, 2015

Reminder For Amber #9 - Be Willing To Change

There is nothing constant in this world, or in our life.  Everything changes. Everything.  If you keep holding on to what things were, you will never be able to experience what could be.  If you refuse to change your own self, you would not be able to grow into the person that you could be.

Accept that changes are a given.  Friends will leave you, you will leave favorite places, even best friends.  Life can switch gears and suddenly you are in a different place, with new people, doing new things.  Be open to these changes, even welcome them, for that is the only path for you to grow.  That is the only path in life.

Change is the essence of life.  Just like a caterpillar that changes into a butterfly, or a tadpole to a frog, you will grow and you will change (and I hope as blooming like a butterfly and not warty as a frog! hahaha).  Have a plan B, C and even X or Z to prepare for the many changes you will face in life.  Yes, you may be able to plan for everything but accepting that life can change at any moment is the first step to getting you ready for any possibility.

What you learn increases, your opinions change, your social circle will grow (or decrease relative to how friendly you will be!), your friends will change, you will and should make new ones.  Your choice in food, clothes, music will change too. So, be open to new ideas, new people, new experiences.  Live up to life's many changes.



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